Leaving My Marriage - The Fears I Hear (And What I Wish My Clients Were Thinking Instead)

Many of us have found ourselves at this life cliff moment wondering "do I leave my marriage?", wondering what to do next. Some of us leap, some of us wondering longer than others before leaping, others choosing to never leap at all.

One privilege of working for over five years with women in this space and season in this life is the commonalities I begin to hear.

The same fears, thoughts, self-doubts and self-questionings. All of us (men included), move through these same thoughts and emotions at this life cliff moment.

As someone who took the leap four years ago and is out the other side, who’s walked through the emotional, family and financial changes all I want to share with you is this - if I had to live my life again I would choose that leap for myself again, every time.

It has been the best thing for my confidence, my life and for my daughters and has continued to be.

For you if this finds you in this space. You are never too old. It is never too late. Let's turn your fears around and look at our life instead from a place of our higher self energy over our wounded self energy xx

The Fears I Hear And What I Wish You Were Thinking Instead

I will struggle financially

Instead of...

What a wonderful way to be financially empowered and independent. To create a life that feels as good on the inside as it looks on the outside. I have time to recreate this life and lifestyle with someone who is more aligned with me.

I won't find love again. I will end up alone and on my own.

Instead of...