Divorce Coach Australia: My Journey from Heartbreak to Healing and Helping Other Women Rebuild

When my marriage ended in 2016 and our marital house had been finally sold, I remember lying on the floor of the shower, with the water coming down on me and asking myself "how did I get here?!"

I had asked for the marriage ending and my divorce, but still the loss of it all, when it all came undone landed on me all at once. Everything I’d built my life around, identified with, thought was my forever, had shifted and gone.

I knew I didn't need therapy. I didn't have a mental illness - a mistake I see many clients make who eventually find their way to me after using therapy believing they needed it to help or fix them.

I knew was simply overwhelmed with the emotions I was dealing with and everything in front of me that I now needed to do/grow/change/fix/transform. And I knew the 'me' journey was at the core of it all.

Back then, I was health coaching. There was no such thing as a Divorce Coach at the time. I certainly didn’t imagine I’d one day become one here in Australia, helping women through the same emotional, practical and life storm I was now navigating myself through.

My marriage ending became the accidental start of a career and personal growth journey far bigger than I ever expected.

And it all stemmed from two inner desires that I was resolutely holding onto despite the way I was feeling on the inside at the time.

1. I refused to suffer financially and for my future to look like watching my ex-husband being able to take my daughters on holidays and give them an amazing life on his time, while I struggled financially unable to enjoy the same things with them in my time.

2. I wanted my divorce to be the positive turning point in my life where everything changed for the better for me in every possible way. I was hungry for that. My success.

Rebuilding Myself — One Step at a Time

Healing wasn’t neat. I found a new group of single and separated friends in 2017 - I went out way too often with them because I wasn't comfortable being alone in my house without my daughters around me when they were with their Dad. I had been a stay at home Mum in my marriage and I didn't know who I was when they weren't with me. My self-identity as a Mum was changing. I didn't know who I was outside of that.

I found love again in 2017.

Returned back to full time paid work.

Was building my coaching business in and around my life.

Started setting new goals for myself as a woman rebuilding life on her own.

During this time is when I fell in love with online coaching programs about healing, growth, feminine healing and energy. I was time poor juggling single Mum parenting, a new partner, working 4 days a week as a Dental Hygienist while also building my then health coaching business on the side of it all.

Online coaching programs about overcoming heartbreak, dating, finding my feminine energy became my late night thing to do for myself once I'd put my daughters to bed in my alone time.

In fact, I was so busy parenting, doing online programs, working for someone else while growing my business between 2017 and 2022 that it has left me with a deficit in my TV and movie watching credentials that I still haven't caught up on. #nojoke Ask anyone who knows me intimately and they will tell you I always hand over the remote to them and let them choose what we will watch because chances are almost 100% I haven't seen it!

In these years I began to rebuild myself with online coaching programs - the inside out kind of way... which actually brings about a lasting transformation.

I read about emotional resilience, learned how to set boundaries, and started working with mentors who taught me about feminine energy, self-trust, female empowerment and self-leadership. I began to see that divorce wasn’t a failure — it was a teacher. And it was growing me in all the ways.

And as my confidence grew, I realised I wanted to help other women through this same journey.

And this is how my health coaching business, which was now a part-time business in 2020, began to transform accidentally into being a divorce coach healing business.

Becoming a Divorce Coach in Australia

As a Divorce Coach in Australia, I now work with women who are ready to rebuild and create success in their post-separation life — emotionally, financially and in their life.

Through my own online coaching program and 1:1 coaching, I help women rebuild their self-identity, release old attachments and release an exes manipulation and hold over them, find emotional peace and clarity, dump being in their exhausting masculine energy and step into their feminine energy, while creating new standards for love, work, and life. My approach is about empowering you from the inside out. It’s about moving forward with clarity and strength.

True transformation not surface level feel-good transformation (that doesn't last). That's where my own personal success came from. This is where yours will too.

How Coaching Helps Women Through Divorce

Divorce can shake everything — your confidence, energy, and sense of safety/security. While therapy looks back, coaching focuses on the future. Together, we look at who you’re becoming, what you truly want, and how to create stability from the inside out.

Divorce coaching in Australia is still a growing field and I've been leading it here in Australia since 2021. Divorce coaching's power lies in it's ability to grow you, heal you while also holding you accountable to a higher level of standard. Women don’t need another checklist or surface level goal to chase. They need guidance, compassion, and honest conversation from someone who understands the emotional terrain.

Through this work, I’ve coached woment to completely step into a new energy and life, rediscover their spark, set boundaries with people and exes they once thought impossible, find love again, completely thrive and begin to trust themselves again.

Life After Divorce — The Power of Rebirth

Divorce stripped away everything that wasn’t aligned for me. In its place, it gave me truth, an inner fire to own my life and reacreate it from a place of empowerment, purpose, and the courage to live my life differently than I had in my past.

I believe every woman has that same capacity for rebirth — not despite her divorce, but because of it.

If you’re standing where I once stood — juggling all the balls, knowing you need to change and get truly passionate for your future, if you're ready for something more — know this: your story isn’t over or a pipe dream. This is the rebuild.

My work is about helping you reconnect with your power, peace, and possibility. If you’re ready to begin, you don’t have to do it alone. Let’s start your next chapter, together.

Join and explore my AfterGlow coaching program here and let me support you through what can and should be, an absolutely pivotal and transformative period in your life.