Going through a marriage ending can be one of the biggest heartbreaks and hardest challenges we can go through as an adult. It is literally an ‘everything at once’ journey.
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The death of a once long held dream you had for your future with a person you thought was your forever can negatively change your view of love, leave us wounded, questioning ourselves and leave us feeling emotionally guarded (and for many, also while still being emotionally abused by our ex).
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Having to process the uncertainty, overwhelm and ongoing feeling of 'what does life look like next?' that keeps you awake at night.
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Suddenly you’re navigating finances, a financial separation and our financial future as a single person.
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And you’re carrying all of this on your shoulders while needing to emotionally care and support your children, navigate and still show up in your daily life, keep a smile on your face, remain positive about your future and keep putting one foot in front of the other everyday.
It’s exhausting. And I know your biggest fear right now is this: Is this just what life looks like for me now?
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Here’s what I want you to know, from having coached thousands of women after their separation: Your life can be SIGNIFICANTLY better than you ever imagined. Far better than it was before. And without the strain and challenges you feel right now.
Carla Da Costa is one of Australia's leading Divorce Coaches and best selling author on the topic of love and divorce.
Join her inside her life changing program today.
I first reached out to Carla not realising how much she would change my life. Every time we spoke, she just knew. She knew what was going on beneath the surface, even before I could articulate it. And with that knowing, she would give me exactly what I needed whether it was a breakthrough in personal growth, relationships, or stepping into my power as a businesswoman.
Through her coaching and program, I’ve learned to trust my intuition, break old patterns, and live in deep alignment with my values. She’s shown me that I don’t have to follow the crowd or the chaos. I can do it my way with clarity, soul, and integrity.
Working with Carla hasn’t just made me better in business; it’s made me a better human. There’s nobody like her, and I’m endlessly grateful to have her in my corner.
Suz
This is the program where you will successfully go through the Post Separation Portal™ and come out the other side a whole new woman on the inside.
1. HEAL
Heal your deepest wounds, fears, disappointments and hurts in love and from emotional abuse.
2. UPGRADE
Upgrade your identity and your mindset around your financial independence, standards, confidence, self-belief and self-love.
3. BECOME
Become the woman who attracts her ultimate partner and everything she wants in her life.
This is the coaching program where practical and pragmatic meets spiritual and soul work to teach you how to have everything you’ve ever wanted that lives on the other side of your separation.
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A new version of self.
A new leash on life and vision for your future.
Love like you’ve never experienced before.
A secure financial mindset and future.
Healed feminine energy.
Emotional healing.
Inner peace.
Gratitude for your past because it made you into a better, wiser, more evolve and happier person for it having happened.
Hi, I’m Carla! Your Life After Divorce Transition Coach for women who are moving on from their marriages ending and recreating themselves from the inside out in the process.
I’m a best selling author and a niche coach for women in this season of their life. With my clients I coach and support them through everything - the healing journey, love and dating, affairs, business growth, financial mindset, children, exes, becoming the woman of their dreams who has everything she dreams of having.
And the reason why I can do this…everything you’re moving through I once had to navigate through myself in my own personal journey. I left my ex-husband in 2016 as a stay at home Mum who had been out of the workforce for almost 5 years. I didn’t know who I was. Had never had a household bill in my own name. Had never run my own business. I’d been with the same man since I was 21. Had never fully been in the drivers seat of my own life as a woman and I was feeling all the feels, uncertain, unsure and a little bit clueless about my next steps financially, personally, emotionally and life wise.
When I tell you that I fully understand where you are today…believe me, I do!
I have been successfully coaching women through The Post Separation Portal ™ using my coaching method and process since 2020 and have supported
1000’s of women to step forward into their new life with confidence,
empowered, with direction, clarity, healed and focused on the future.
My mission is to support women to move through The Post Separation
Portal ™ in lightening speed - you don’t have to linger in there, you and
your future deserve more.
Working with Carla through my various emotions, chapters has been life changing. The program has assisted me greatly and my 1:1 coaching has been invaluable. Carla’s authentic and genuine style (and helped by a wicked sense of humour) has helped me navigate my journey with confidence and clarity.
Carla’s refreshing take on separations where it’s about focusing on our growth and not sitting in the negative energy is refreshing and empowering.
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With Carla’s help I am feeling confident and positive about my future as a 42 year old divorcee. Having Carla in your corner is truly life changing.
Louise
I have truly transformed my life and the person I am thanks to Carla. She was the guiding light I needed.
I feel so grateful for Carla coming into my life as I know with certainty I would not be in this place in my life had we not connected.
Had someone told me 5 years ago where I would be today in my business and personal life post my marriage ending I would never have believed them!! I honestly am in the best place of my life and I attribute so much of that to Carla, her coaching and her program.
Samantha
Here’s What’s Included In The Afterglow Program:
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My 3 month highly tailored and proven Post Separation Portal ™ coaching framework
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Access to my private members coaching portal where you can remain anonymous or exist with a pseudonym inside if you wish.
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Over 60+ hours of recorded content by Carla Da Costa that is specific to the needs of the woman whose marriage has ended.
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A hypnotherapy library and specific guided meditations to use alongside Carla's coaching, that are tailored and purposefully timed through the 3 month coaching period together to rewire your subconscious mind from fear/anger into faith/peace fast.
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Easy to follow, step by step process that you will be hand held and guided through.
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Two live group coaching calls with Carla Da Costa herself. All group calls are recorded for you to watch back privately in your own time and you have the opportunity to show up live with your personal situations that you would like support or clarity on OR the additional opportunity to send your questions into Carla to be answered anonymously.
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Option to add on 1:1 private coaching calls with Carla Da Costa if you wish to further fast track you.
From my experience coaching thousands of women after navigating my own separation 9 years ago, I’ve identified that we tend to get stuck in the murky post-separation period for months on end, sometimes even years.
I call this The Post Separation Portal ™.
The good news?
You can fasttrack this process - and I’m going to show you how.
In this program we will fast track you through the mess, the emotions, the overwhelm, the wounding and the hurt.
You will see clearly and with clarity the lessons of the past, process them internally so you can weave them into your strengths.
Emerging out the other side more empowered, more feminine, more confident, stronger in mindset and more inspired than you’ve ever felt before.
The Afterglow coaching program is for women whose marriage has ended.
She wants to become the woman who has absolutely everything she wants post-separation.
It’s for the woman who is fully committed to her future and living her best possible life.
She is embracing the unknown. Trusting the future and knows it’s time to fully show up for herself.
Now Let's Take A Glance At What You Get Inside The Afterglow Coaching Program
MODULE ONE
Manifest & Clarity
Clarity and processing of your marriage that you co-created, chose and enabled. Powerful. Confronting - yes possibly. But life changing mindset flip.
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Learn how to truly course correct your life and you begin to follow the Post Separation Portal vision casting process to expand and manifest into your next chapter.
MODULE THREE
Feminine Embodiment
You being to understand if you are in your feminine or masculine energy. To know what that even means and how to 'fix' it.
You begin to learn the step by step of how to be in your feminine embodiment as a single woman and in relationships.
MODULE FIVE
Empowered
You learn how to quiet self-doubt and the inner voice that is always in you in the background.
You learn how to harness and strengthen your intuition and quiet fears that hold you back. And you come into being in both your feminine and masculine in balance to be your most empowered personally and professionally.
MODULE SEVEN
Healed
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You go deeper on your triggers and vulnerabilities that are sometimes childhood wounds, sometimes adult that continue to trigger you.
You learn how to nagvigate dating, the love journey, low effort/emotionally unavailable men in the post separation world where everyone has some baggage, an ex-wife, a child or 3 and often not in the financial situation they used to be.
MODULE TWO
Identity
You begin to step into being the woman who has it all now. You change the inner dialogue to become her.
The process of you being shining and magnetic instead of being in fear, chasing energy, needy and self-doubt begins.
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MODULE FOUR
Attract
You learn the inner mechanics of how to attract a masculine man and relationship.
You learn how to manage your exes if they are continuing to try to manipulate, bring you down or control you. You shift into expanding now into more love, success and abundance in your 3D than ever before - it’s no longer a dream or something on the vision board.
MODULE SIX
The Beautiful Feminine Shift
You start the truly understand the feminine woman - how she moves in life and love and we begin to create your own unique version of this woman.
You learn true empowerment and confidence and you become the woman who inspires, not nags the masculine into being his best version of self. A life changing relationship shift to embody.
MODULE EIGHT
The New Woman​
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You stepping forward now into your destiny, freedom, happiness, peace, abundance, love and life now that you’re feeling more empowered, confident, centered and self-aware than you ever have before as a woman.
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The inner shift has happened within you. The outer world now completely shifts with it to celebrate you.
Your Invesment
I stumbled across Carla “accidentally” one evening watching The Project on TV. I was drawn to Carla’s energy and I really resonated with her message. I was done with making the same mistakes and was ready to put myself first and make some changes.
Investing in myself and having Carla as my mentor has to be one of the most pivotal, life changing points in my life. All woman should feel their special goddess energy and celebrate it!
Carla has helped me in more ways imaginable and I am excited to see where my future will take me.
Jac
From the very first 1:1 session and moments in the Afterglow program I completely trusted and felt safe in Carla's guidance.
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Having friends and family can be comforting however really the guidance of someone who has seen this before and has the answers to navigate you professionally and quickly through it was so incredibly valuable and grounding. You don’t need people to tell you want you want to hear- you need people to tell you the how it actually is!
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With Carla, I have worked on myself more over the past 12 months than in my entire life. I’ve built an entirely new life and unlearnt so many things that I had believed to be true about love, life and relationships.