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Life After A Marriage Ends 
Private 1:1 Coaching

A highly personalised three-month coaching container for women who are navigating the end of a marriage or integrating life after it.

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This work is for women who are not falling apart, but are quietly unsettled.

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You may be moving through the ending of a marriage you know is complete.


Or you may have already left and are now facing the deeper question of how you want to live, love, and relate going forward.

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You are intelligent. Self-aware. Capable.


And yet, this transition has touched parts of you that logic and strength alone cannot resolve.

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This container offers steady, personalised support during a season that requires clarity, emotional safety, and grounded decision-making.

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This coaching container is not for insight.

It is for movement.

Who Is This Coaching Container Suitable For?

​This Private 1:1 Coaching Space Is For The Woman:

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  • Whose marriage has ended, or knows her marriage is coming to an end and wants to move through this season with clarity and self-trust

  • Is functioning well externally but feels emotionally unsettled, alone, or conflicted underneath

  • Knows she has outgrown her relationship but feels the weight of guilt, responsibility, or fear around choosing herself

  • Finds herself repeating relationship patterns despite insight and self-awareness

  • Feels tired of circling decisions and wants consistent support to make grounded ones

  • Is ready to be guided through real, transformative change, not just talk about it

  • Wants to feel emotionally safe and self-led before entering her next chapter in love and life

  • This work is not about blame or analysing the past endlessly.
    It is about helping you move forward without abandoning yourself.

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How Do We Work Together?

This is a three-month private coaching container.

We work closely and consistently, allowing space for nuance, honesty, and integration. You are not expected to arrive with answers or direction. This is where I ask you to trust me and my professional direction with you.

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Together, we focus on:

  • Emotional self-trust and nervous system steadiness

  • Relationship and attachment patterns

  • Boundaries and decision-making

  • Reclaiming identity after marriage

  • Learning how to choose from clarity rather than fear or habit

This work is relational and grounded.
Change happens through consistency, not intensity.

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Carla’s 1:1 mentoring changed the trajectory of my life. Struggling to leave a toxic relationship post my marriage ending and dealing with negative beliefs about myself, I was in a perpetual cycle of confusion, fear, and self- abandonment.

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Carla helped support and guide me back to trusting my intuition and self-love and to leave a karmic relationship. Carla also gave me the vision, strategies and confidence to kick start my new business that was waiting in the wings.

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Meeting Carla, she instantly possesses a real genuine compassion for the women she coaches, she listens intently and her approach to our sessions made reassured by her relatable, open, and honest advice.​

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Other therapists I’ve seen, never gave me the outcomes and real change that I achieved from working with Carla, I am now living and creating the present and future I want.

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I would recommend Carla to anyone struggling in relationships or self love.

Kellie

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I interviewed Julie on my podcast here titled: 'How One Woman Overcame The Cliche'd End To Her Marriage & Became An Entirely Different Woman In The Process'

 

I came to Carla embarrassed and humiliated about the clichéd end of my 20-year marriage.

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Carla'a AfterGlow container and coaching helped me immensely. I was no longer the ‘victim’ and for the first time in my life I found myself excited to be in the driver’s seat.

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Yes, I was grieving the loss of the family life I had planned in my head, the future that will never be … but Carla helped open my eyes to a whole NEW world of possibilities.

 

An empowering program, that helped me regain my confidence, direction, and drive. That has ultimately changed my life.

Julie

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Who Is Carla Da Costa

Carla Da Costa is a published author on divorce and love, a certified divorce coach and transformational life coach. She has been working in the divorce space and works with men and women who are separating, divorced or who have been out of their marriages since 2017. Carla went through her own divorce in 2016.

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Carla has a deep understanding of the masculine and feminine healing and awakening journey that occurs during a marriage ending and moving on from it's ending process.

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Carla's work has a deep focus on supporting men into their conscious, masculine energy and women into their empowered, feminine energy - sometimes for the first real time in their lives. Her desire is to heal mistrust and misunderstanding between men and women and to see both sexes in their empowerment and strengths and in loving unions with another.

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She has a deep passion in the psychological, metaphysical and spiritual worlds while also having a deep grasp on the practicalities and legalities of a marriage ending and the navigation of exes, children and associated situations of money and businesses.​

Carla's coaching is both a combination of executive style coaching, mentorship and intuitively lead guidance. She has a profound ability to recognise pattern recognition, to be able to read you and your situation quickly and powerfully to bring you clarity, healing and resolvement.

 

On a personal level, Carla went through her own marriage ending and divorce in 2015 and 2016 and has coached 1000's of individuals through their own since. She could not do this work today if she had not moved through this experience and come fully out the other side herself.

What Shifts When You Are Supported This Way?

Women who work with me often experience:

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  • A sense of calm, clarity, and emotional steadiness

  • Reduced reactivity to partners or ex-partners

  • Confidence in their decisions and boundaries

  • A felt sense of self-worth, not just intellectual knowing

  • The ability to walk away from what no longer aligns without collapse or self-doubt

  • A renewed relationship with their body, desires, and future

  • Forward movement in life, love, and career that feels clean and self-led

  • Deeper, aligned version of success that they won't outgrow

  • A shift into their feminine energy, often after many years un-realisingly being in their masculine energy.

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This is not about becoming someone new.
It is about returning to yourself with support.

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A Marriage Ending Can Be A Pivot Point.

The end of a marriage is allowed to be one of the most challenging seasons of adult life.

It can also become the moment everything begins to align and you become the best version of yourself you've ever been.

With the right support, this transition can lead to deeper self-trust, healthier relationships, and a life that reflects who you truly are now, not who you had to be to survive.

Be inspired by some of my past client's stories and experiences with me here.

How This Support Works

This is a three-month private coaching container designed to stabilise your nervous system while you actively change patterns and make decisions.

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Inside this container, you receive:

  • 4 private coaching sessions (60–75 minutes) over three months

  • Daily private support between sessions so you don’t self-regulate or navigate your situation alone

  • Focused guidance around boundaries, relationships, confidence, identity, finance, career and direction

  • Active momentum holding, not spaced-out conversations

  • Daily support exists here because change is being held in real time.

  • In depth pre-consultation questionnaire so that Carla arrives to your first session with an already deep understanding of your past, present and future goals.

  • Carla's recommended hypnotherapy library to release emotional ties to past lovers, emotional thought patterns, heal wounds and traumas and to align ourselves with what we desire to attract into our life.

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What Makes This Different

This is not a series of sessions.

 

This is a contained space where:

  • Decisions are supported as they’re made

  • Patterns are interrupted rather than analysed

  • Momentum is maintained instead of lost between calls

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You are not left to “figure it out” alone.

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Who It’s Not For

 

This container is not suitable if:

  • You want occasional check-ins

  • You prefer to move slowly without structure

  • You are not ready to take responsibility for change

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If you want steady support without daily intensity, my AfterGlow container is a better fit. You can find it here.

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Investment

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Private 1:1 Coaching Investment

  • $3,495 AUD pay in full

  • $1,200 x 3 monthly payments

  • $600 x 6 monthly payments

This reflects the depth, proximity, and responsibility of this container.

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If you’re unsure whether this level of support is right for you, AfterGlow is always the safest place to begin. You can find it here.

This 1:1 container is for women who are ready to lead their lives differently and know it's time, perhaps even well overdue.

If that feels like you, you’re welcome to start the process with me by sending an enquiry below.

 

 

Next Steps

Private 1:1 coaching is offered in limited spaces.

If you feel drawn to this level of support, the first step is a conversation to explore whether this container is the right fit for you.

You can enquire about 1:1 coaching by emailing me below.

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