Coaching For Separating & Divorced Women


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Whether you arrive to me feeling excited and inspired for your future. Whether you arrive to me feeling lost and fearful for everything that's in front of you.

However this finds you today.

Welcome to me here and everything I share.

I once was you.

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About Carla


Carla Da Costa is a published author and certified Divorce coach based in Perth, Australia.


Carla works with women who are separated, divorced or divorcing through her private 1:1 coaching practice, her online group program and her books.


Through her work Carla supports and inspires women to make this next season of their life, the best season of their life. Carla has become a modern voice on divorce for women and men asking is divorce really a failure or could this actually be the best catalyst for change that ever happened to you?

Read My Book

Seconds Please is the book for women who desire to be in the drivers seat of their life after a marriage or long-term relationship ends. Perhaps for the very first time in their life. 


And it's for any woman who has left a relationship and wondered "who am I?"

With wisdom, insight and direct personal experience, Seconds Please is one of the more delightful, modern books about finding yourself and starting over after divorce. Asking, is divorce really a failure or could it instead be the best thing that ever happened to you?

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Join My Online Webinar

Whether you are newly separated, divorced or simply considering leaving your relationship, this powerful 90 minute pre-recorded workshop will support you to start thinking about your future ahead.

The decisions that need to be made, what your blocks and fears are and how to overcome them, understanding the feminine/masculine balance and what it means to be in our feminine, while also inspiring you to answer 'where to next for me?'

Elevate You


In this powerful, highly supportive group coaching program, we will change the type of man you attract and pursue in your life

Elevate You is the program for you if you want to become soul mate ready.
It is not for you if you are still attracted to the push/pull dynamic of wound mate style relationships. 

One On One Coaching


Carla works with women who are in the process of, or who have already left a long term relationship.


Through both her professional coaching training and personal experience, Carla guides and supports her clients through her 'Future Me' one on one coaching package to make this next season of her clients lives, the best season of their lives. 

Together in her highly personalised, confidential sessions Carla works to change her clients patterns, self-belief and emotions to completely up-level the trajectory of their future life and relationships. 

Carla's belief is that our past experiences and life are not a reflection of our potential or possibility. She knows this because she's lived it and co-created it in her own.

It's Carla's mission to empower her clients with the tools, learnings and skills to walk confidently into their future - free of baggage and full of self-trust and experience.


Baby you deserve the best. And you deserve to do it with grace, ease and style!

Join me on my podcast 'Divorce & Everything In Between' where I talk on everything related to a woman's journey before she leaves her long-term relationship or marriage and everything that comes after if she does leave.

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Listen To My Podcast

Happy Clients

"How to thank a woman who has completely transformed your life? I have been working with Carla for 5 months to try and break toxic habits and living a life of playing small and safe. 


All I can say is in this short time with Carla I have learnt and grown more then I have in my whole adult life. 


Carla challenged my thought process and self talk and helped me transform my life, not only have I changed my career path but have changed my energy so much so that people around me have commented on it, and wanted to know why I seemed so different. 


I have gone from an over giver with no boundaries, to someone who is not afraid to ask for what I want/need and have the ability to set boundaries in my life, I now live to make me happy, not everyone else! 


I have really enjoyed every step of this journey, Carla’s coaching style is calming, positive and intuitive, investing in myself by joining this community was one of the most rewarding decisions I have ever made"

Julia Reynolds

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